Remember when you were a kid and stayed home from school because you were sick? Remember how weird it was to watch all those daytime TV talk shows and think, “so this is how the other half lives.” Remember how it was even stranger when you accompanied your mother on a brief errand or visited the doctor’s office and saw people out and about as if the world of work and school didn’t exist?
I’ve now had a flexible work schedule for the better part of four years, but I’ve still spent the majority of my life ensconsed in a regular 7-3 or 9-5 routine. Now, on maternity leave with a new baby, going out in public during the business week feels much like it did on those sick days so long ago. Buying diapers at the grocery store, dropping off copies of my new book at the post office, and running back and forth to doctor’s appointments, I see crowds of people – adults who clearly don’t have 9-5 jobs and school-aged kids who are evidently getting more of an unorthodox education.
In cities like New York and Chicago, this phenomenon is even more obvious. Sometimes it feels as if there are more people hanging out in cafes during the workday than in clubs on a Saturday night. It’s jarring, but, I believe, ultimately a good thing. Technology has made it so we can do work anywhere, anytime, so why shouldn’t we become less rigid about the necessity of showing up at an office five days a week, for eight hours a day? Maybe it’s only a matter of time before our work schedules are so variable that there’s no such thing as a “peak” time to ride the subway or a $5 weekday matinee at the movies.
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I remember when my first daughter was born 10 years ago, and I left work to stay home with her, I felt the exact same way about seeing people out and about during a weekday. Like, what do these people do that they can be at the park on a Tuesday at 1:30? Now that I'm self employed (and was just at the park on a Wednesday at 1pm) it seems perfectly normal. Although no way am I watching Daytime TV.
There's a coffee place nearby where 90% of the customers have a laptop and have headphones on. Some are students, but others are just doing their work thing. I love this!
Good you see you, Heather! And I agree that the more you are immersed in this life, the less weird it seems.